Thoughts for the day

A year ago this month I met Ben - I was not looking for someone else - it just happened. There had already been discussion between Ron and I about me not being happy and wanting to move out for nearly a year.

The last year has been very challenging and eye opening for me. I realize how apparent it was to others that I was not happy but it was not apparent to the ones that should have known it. That still is hard to accept that someone who is supposed to know me inside and out didn't really know me at all. That's where the title of my blog fits it. Ron and I were good friends but we grew apart and are more like strangers now.

Things seem to be going well with Ben and I. I am looking forward to the road trip we have planned and seeing the ocean. I assume Ron and Diane are doing well. The boys have their days with me but I am getting used to their actions.

There are individuals that have played a major part in my life that I do not have much contact with but it is really great to hear from them when I do.

Things continue to change in my life, some of the changes I am driving and other I am going along for the ride with. The future is still not clear.